Some tips for the ladies

1. Don't be sad if a guy does not want to talk to you everyday, he may just want to be next to you instead.

2. The most honest guys know how to tell you the truth, even if it hurts sometimes.

3. He doesn't always say how much he cares, he's just plotting to show you in a different way

4. He might seem flirtatious with other women, but it's just his confidence shining through

5. Guys who got it don't need to talk about it, you'll figure it out soon enough

6. Be patient, we react first and don't always think things through as much as we should

7. Give him some room to make mistakes, hey, you make them too

8. Guys don't want girls, we want women who know how to have fun and feel young

9. When it comes right down to it, we can hurt just as much as you, we just don't show it

10. We can be boring at times, but hey, planning an entire life together with somone is not always fun, but it is responsible

What defines a man?

So some women have told me a man gots to have the goods, a nice car, a nice house, money in the bank, but really, are women inherently looking for security or is there something more? Is it really that simple?

I'm pathetic...

Because to this day I still can't hold back the tears when I give my mom a hug.  Love you mom.

The Love of My Life

I just wanted ya'll to know that I've been smitten, bit by the love bug, shot by Cupid's arrow....yes, I'm in love with a new wine!!   Her name is D'Yquem and she's from the lovely village of Sauterne, France.  To describe her...oh, how can I put in words?  Mysterious, golden, soft, gentle, silky, smooth, lasting, bright, complex, satisfying...these are just a few words I can think of.  If you ever get a chance to be in her presence, relish and savor the moment....it's an experience of a lifetime.   

So how do you know when two people really love each other? Take my parents for example-the other day when my parents were staying over at my place, I asked my dad if he wanted to go eat Pho for breakfast and he said yes.  My mom, who was still getting out of bed, quickly said she wasn't hungry and my dad paused for a second then said "I think I want to get something to go at McDonald's instead." to which my mom said OK. I was thinking to myself this is kinda odd...why would they pass up Pho for MaMaggots?

As they left it suddenly occured to me.  The reason my mom didn't want to go eat Pho wasn't because she wanted McMaggots.  It was because she wasn't dressed and didn't want to show herself in public.  My dad being the understanding person he is, took the sublte route and saved my mom from having to do it, even though he much rather have Pho. It's these little moments of understanding that truly shows how much two people really love each other.